well, again this is just to remind myself...as a BIG reminder for my own self too...to be nice to others, to be good to myself or our own self ya...we shouldnt get involve in other's personal matters...this is can considered as "busy body" or for some peoples it just like harrastment for them...
before i go further guys, im not talking about other, it is AS REMINDER for myself...and perhaps, it can be to people outhere too...there's alots of disadvantage rather than good thing for us to be like that...guess what, we never know the real thing that happened to that "person" so then, we can't simply said this and that...if we really want to be a part of their problems, ASK them first...whatwas actually happened, then we can give our opinion...JUST OPINION as a beginning...than if that "person" give a good respon and maybe she / he will ask for further action...of course we should help them if we do have the ability to do so...
but...how about if that "person" dont really act like she/he want to share with us??? first thing first, dont try to dig it...its their personal matters and since it called personal, its mean private and confidental...so get hell out of it...u'll just make their feel annoyed when u try to get involve while they never wish to...thus, u shouldn't do any things which lead to hurt their feeling...especially ur friends...
so guys, let it be ur reminder too...u cant ruin the relation that u have...
ok...
a cup of reminder for me and u guys out there...
peace no war...juju justagirl...:)
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